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Ok, just an idea I thought of, not sure if it'll work or not, if it doesnt, please dont hesitate to delete my mistake XD

Ok, basicly one person posts an issue thay have. It could be anything at all, no matter how bad or what category.
Then, the person that posts below them either tells them a solution, or that their issue is totally unfounded (Some people have warped views of themselves)
Note: Unless asked by the person with the issue: NOTHING LEAVES THIS THREAD. It will not effect anything else. That way no one gets hurt.


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Heres mne
I feel very jealous of other babyfurs. I feel that many of them have a way of acting childish and cute and I can't acomplish that.

This kind of maybe has the potential to upset someone and cause arguments if people take it too seriously, but let's see...

Max, I think the key is not to try to act like the other people you envy, but to act like you want to act. Don't think too hard about what you're saying, just type the first thing that comes into your head and don't worry about whether it's cute or funny or babyfurrish. The more instinctively you talk, the easier it is to get in touch with your inner babyfur. I think. Be yourself! Yourself is cute and I like him a lot!

I have an issue too: I feel a bit weird about talking and playing online with so many teenagers, when I'm (shudder) turning 31 on Sunday. I just don't get on with babyfurs my own real-life age (with a few notable exceptions) - they always seem to be cynical and pedantic and not cute at all. But I don't feel like I completely fit in when all my babyfur friends are between 14 and 19 years old...

Well, I'm a few years younger than you, but I'm closer in age to you than I am to most members of this forum. I agree with you that most older babyfurs are a bit cynical and reserved. It may be that we're used to rejection from others. It may be that we're just a bit burnt out. I don't know. But I say if no one here has an issue with you (us) being here, then why worry about it? Younger or not the people on this forum are more fun to be around than on other forums I could name (but won't).


Okay, I have one too. I'm concerned about finding someone to share my life with. There aren't that many furs here in my own town, and the ones I've met are with someone. I'm not sure I could be happy with a non-furry person. I've considered going to a con or other gathering, but I'm a bit uncomfortable going alone. Also, most people in my life don't know about my furriness. How would I explain the trip to them? I'm at a loss.

I do not have many furs in my town either Poco. All I do most of the time is to hang around my forum or play video games. I am just about the same age as you and Zee-Zee as one of the oldest furs on the board.

I feel the same about going to a con. Maybe we could arrange for a bunch of us from the Furr Den to all go to the same one some time? Then at least we'd all be outcasts together, even if the worst came to the worst. As for explaining the trip, you could always be vague - if I went to a con, I'd say I was meeting friends in that part of the world, or maybe going to some sort of cartoon/comics event.

Well,I feel like a brat for saying this du to the fact that I am without a doubt the youngest person here, buuuut, Odds are I'll be attending AC this summer with my Papa, Kam the Spottyfox

I'd love to go to Anthrocon. Or the Midwest Furfest is kind of central. I like the idea of getting a group of us together sometime. Anyone else interested?